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Friday, November 23, 2012

Learn To Wait

If ever you find yourself in a state of confusion or at a crossroads and you’ve got some hesitance about which way to turn.  Wait.
 
If you’ve been going a hundred miles an hour then something happens to knock you off your game just a bit and you’re not sure how to handle it.  Wait.
 
In matters of the heart, if things seem to be ok, but you’re still not quite sure about him/her.  Wait.
 
If you fear making the wrong decision, ask your higher power (HP) to step in.  Vow to reach no conclusions on your own.  Especially if you have an itch in your gut.  Because I’ve learned that those itches are there for a reason.
 
Let me tell you what waiting does – and I’m not gonna take all day.
 
1. Waiting gives you just enough time to think clearly.  Even if it’s only for seconds, often that’s all we need to come to the right conclusion.
 
2.  Waiting allows time for the other party to show their true colors – because they always will.  These are colors that have probably been present since the beginning, but appeared faded to your eye.  Perhaps you justified them in some way.  However, time allows them to relax just enough to slip up, and give you a glimpse at your future.  You may ask surprisingly, “Where did that come from?!?”  Quit playing silly.  It was always there and you know it.  Just thank God you didn’t act in haste.
 
3.  Waiting allows your higher your HP to see your true intent, so that you can be nudged in the right direction.  Sometimes WE have to prove OURselves worthy of guidance.  HP wants to see if you’ve (a) learned from past mistakes, (b) got three shreds of patience within you, (c) asked for guidance with a sincere heart.
 
And believe you me. I know that waiting can be a b*&^% at times.  We just want to jump right, run left, move south, and power north – all at the same time.  Calm ya butt down a little bit!  Wait.  Just sit down and wait.  No need to be a fool (again).  The proper choice ALWAYS reveals itself.  And wouldn’t you rather it be revealed before you made a step in the wrong direction as opposed to having to say, “Dang.  I wish I’d waited.”
 
Patience is a virtue.  I didn’t make that up – it’s for reals.  Get some and learn to wait.
 
My name is Jasmynne Shaye, and this is me STEPPING ON A FEW TOES.
 

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